Should I still text him?

Hi, I was dating someone for 1 month and we were okay. Last Saturday I was drunk and text him like" don't you want to see me" and things like "you don't like me". When I woke up and I called him he didn't pick up the phone and I sent to him "sorry, seems like I was texting you when I was drinking, I will catch up with you later" and he didn't reply. So I waited for 2 days and sent him "Hi how are you" and he didn't reply. Then yesterday I texted him "Hi, seems you don't want to see me anymore. I just would like to say that I had a good time with you.thx" I didn't get the reply either. I like him and at least I would like to here from him that he doesn't want to see me anymore. Can I still text him in the future?

No- it's time to let this one go. You've learnt a hard lesson here. Specifically, you always need to avoid texting or ringing a love interest when you're drunk, and you never ever want to chase too hard and put the pressure on them. This makes you appear desperate and needy, and if this happens they'll run the other way. You want to let things build naturally, have space between dates, and don't rush things. If someone is keen on you they'll show you and continue to chase you. If not, don't waste anymore of your time trying to get them interested or talking to them. Move on and look for someone better.

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