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II’ve been with my boyfriend for the past 6 months and I’m totally in love. The only problem is I don’t know where I stand with him. He seems to avoid talking about his feelings, he often runs late or sometimes cancels on me, he spends a lot of time separately with his friends, and he doesn’t think about the future. He can be a bit of a flirt, avoids staying over after sex, and I seem to be the one that keeps chasing him and waiting for him to get back to me. Any thoughts? Yes. It’s time to get out of there! You’ve hooked up with a guy who’s not interested in a long-term relationship. He’s a commitment faker who talks a good game but will never give you what you want. He behaves in a way that signals he’s not interested in the future. As a result, you don’t know where you stand with him. This is a very bad sign after 6 months together. Instead, at this stage you should be secure about your feelings for each other, feel number one in his life, and be excited about the future - not anxious and confused. Get out now and look for someone who makes you a priority and can give you a long-term commitment. |
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